Are you kinky? Curious? Just wanna try something new? Awesome! The world of kink is extensive as it is exciting, and with so much to try and learn about, there’s sure to be something to spice up your relationship.
Fantasies and desires are completely normal, but we’re often too shy to bring them up with partners. A fear of rejection combined with a societal pressure to have “normal sex” can make us feel vulnerable or weird. That’s why I’m here today: to tell you that trying out new stuff in the bedroom is not only awesome, but also a new way to bond with your partner(s)!
For starters, kinks are a great way to get more comfortable with yourself. It’s fun and natural to explore our own sexuality, and learning more about what makes us tick will in turn make for better communication and sex in the long run.
The novelty aspect of trying something new together can of course increase your sexual satisfaction, but also your relationship satisfaction. Overcoming feelings of vulnerability and first-time-jitters takes a great amount of trust, communication, and comfort within the relationship… so not only is it super sexy, but also great for bringing you closer together than ever!
There are also lots of ways to approach kink, giving you and your relationship plenty of opportunity to be creative. There’s this myth that one member has to always be dominant and the other always submissive, but that’s confining and boring and… not what this is about! You and your partner(s) can switch roles, experiment with different power dynamics, roleplay different scenarios, and have fun shopping for accessories together. The possibilities are endless!
So, how do you bring this up? I’ve created a cheat sheet of Do’s and Don’ts along with a playlist of sexy videos below for you to consider: