Hello, Ryan Riesling here! I’m an adult content creator and the official YouPorn Girl. In our latest series, I am going to be answering your questions about sex, relationships, and porn in a new advice column. Don’t be shy! Nothing is too risque or off-the-wall for me. I love hearing from you, so make sure to leave a comment or tweet at me @YouPornGirl.
Relationships thrive on healthy communication and common interests, so it makes sense to want to talk about and watch porn with your partner! But what’s the best way to broach the subject if you’ve never watched together before? A fun jumping off point could be suggesting watching porn instead of your usual evening TV together. Send your SO a sexy text about it earlier in the day so they can have time to get excited for it. Later, one of you can scroll through and navigate the site, while both of you discuss what kind of scenes you are interested in.
Now — I know this can be awkward — our sexual fantasies and porn preferences are often complex and cultivated over years in private, but open communication about porn will show how confident and secure you feel within your relationship. Speaking up about what you are into will strengthen the bond between you, too.
To keep it fun and light, I’ve provided a few guidelines (and some recommended videos) to keep in mind: